Sugar and salt look the same so be careful who you trust. Using the sugar and salt analogy, the man who gives you both is the you must be more wary of you . Emotional abuse can be very subtle . This type of relationship is the most addictive as your always holding on for the sugar high. What I went through with my ex.
It is also proven by research and makes other addictions more addictive. Wanting the same high as initial fix and always after the next big win in gambling. This is known as partial in psychology.
As well as subtle, emotional abuse is also a factor in more overtly abusive relationships
It will take me a long time to trust again. I will never rush again and must be respected as time tells all . If a person’s truly interested they will wait
Individuals with a mental health problem are particularly vulnerable so take head moon children . As some conditions involve or lead to to the development of low self esteem. Abusive people also seek out people who have low self esteem that are easily manipulated
I was involved in a long term relationship where the person repeatedly told me that no one but him would want me as I gave a mental illness. So be wary trust is earnt